I know all this must seem pretty intense. Some might even say crazy. But, I am looking for my Jack. And I will do what I have to do.
Now you all must be wondering about me. If I have set my standards to high and whatnot. I would say that I have not. I will tell you more about me, when you ask -- and reply WITH A PICTURE.
as far in a guy what i want is someone who is nice and sweet someone who is going to be there for me as i'm going to be with him, someone who isnt afraid to steel a kiss a away from me or in giving me one infront of his friends, someone who isn't scared of taking a risk, i want a trustworthy guy someone who is gonna respect me, i want a guy to know what he wants in life and that is family and goal oriented, i don't need to spend my time on someone who dont know what they want and they are just about playing games, i really hate it when a guy thinks he's all slick cause he has 2 girls and whatnot seriously how pathetic are you? so please no players or wanna be players.i am NOT 420 friendly i dont smoke period, i dont mind if u drink cause i do socially but please moderate your drinking, I preferably looking for a guy who is around the ages of 22-26 anything young or older im not gonna reply. i dont have a prefrence with race but i actually like hispanic and white guys( country/city boys) oh yeah please don't have any past baggage like crazy Ex's or baby mamas ( i love kids but when daiting single dads the ex's go insane i rather not deal with it)
You: nice, honest, not shallow, fake, or into games. NO MARRIED MEN. A great sense of humor is a huge turn on. Caring and compassionate (and/or passionate) huge plus. 8-) Lives alone (or with roommates) , must have your own transportation and be employed. White or hispanic (sorry I dont date black men just my preference not to) 30 to 40 years old. Not to much to ask is it?
Im not looking for a one night stand or a FWB. Im looking for a guy who actually wants to date. Im sure you'd like to know more about me. Likes, dislikes etc.. There are too many to list on CL. Im your average chick. I love music, movies, and reading. I've recently discovered my love for wine and I'm even happier that my part time job allows me the opportunity to try many different wines. Theres more I could tell but I wont. I'll let you ask.
Im not always so serious so dont let any of this fool you. 8-) If you want to know more feel free to email me and if not then on to the next post. 8-) I will answer all emails or try anyway.
I am black, college-educated (I thought that may be as important to you as it is to me), I teach (I am as passionate about what I do as you are about something in your life), and I am an old soul who is endlessly attracted to humor. Just think, your sense of humor will make me smile and keep me smiling for a long time. You will undoubtedly recognize me by my smile and adore all of my curves. You like your women a little thicker, so you'll know it's me. So please Mr. Right, I am now out in the open waiting to be found. If you are reading this and thinking that now I am going to post some cleverly hidden website reference, it won't happen. I am as real as they come. I do have pics available and I am willing to share after you send me yours.
I'm looking for someone with a great personality, sense of humor, kind, someone who I can talk to. Also, someone who doesn't do drugs. Age range 23-33.
we aren't looking for some pervert who just wants to have a threesome with us. we are looking for someone who is genuinely interested in a LTR with two extremely funny, beautiful and caring ladies.
please send us a picture and tell us a little bit about yourself. DO NOT SEND ANY NUDE PICS
about us:
our names are sara and meadow.
sara: strawberry blonde. blue eyes. 5'9.
meadow: brown hair. blue eyes. 5'6.
we both love, love, love music. taking pictures. MOJITOS! parties. TEXAS FOOTBALL!
A bit more about me....
I love to hang out.
Sing random songs out of nowhere.
Work schedule is never the same.
Loves Notre Dame football!!!!!!!
Live music makes me smile. (Texas Country mostly)
Can never have to much fun.
River is my second home.
I am getting to a place where friends are just not enough anymore and I want something more. People around me are getting married and having children. I don’t think I am quite ready for that now but would like to find someone who it could be a possibility with some day.
I would also like to meet someone who lives in the city. I am a city girl and enjoy life in Austin. I want to meet someone who will accept me for me and not care that I am overweight. Someone who can look past that and see all that I have to offer. Also, please have a steady job, a working car, and no major mental illnesses. I have learned to ask for these things from previous experiences.
a little about me: i am 24, hispanic, brunette, brown eyes, about 5 ft tall, petite/avg body type. i came to Austin for UT about 6 years ago and never left. some of my favorite things are going to concerts, hanging out with friends, alamo drafthouse, lazy sundays, watching re-runs of everybody loves raymond, reading, playing snes, and board games.
enjoys a good conversation, but i like to argue, so be up for the challenge of defending things you say
i dont use drugs but partake when offered (420 only)
not HWP as stated before...i think plus starts at 14 and im an 18.
i have no pets but i love dogs...i can stand only certain cats that i have to be around for any reason
i like mellow indie rock/pop...but i never know the names of any bands or artists i know if i put in regina spektor or death cab for cutie in pandora i will like the music that plays...
i have a gym membership, but never use it...but i have a wii fit that i use sporadically
about you:
27-32 (i'm not super firm on the age, but 35 would be pushing it)
single
no kids
college educated or well versed in the school of life
good job...by your standards of course
generally contented
no crazy drama
capable of good conversation
i don't discriminate, so any race/ethnicity is okay.
if you are interested please respond with a pic and an interesting conversation topic:
I believe in traditional roles, the woman should take care of her man in the house, and the man should take care of his woman outside of the house. If you agree, and are over 5’9" (I’m 5’9" and traditional, remember, so I would like someone taller than me, who can make me feel like they can take care of me) and between 27 and 37 (please don’t bother if you are older, I’m not looking for a “sugar daddy!”) send me an e-mail titled "tattoos" (yes, I have them, I actually have quite a few). Although I’m just looking for someone to have fun with at the moment, I am interested in eventually becoming a non-traditional housewife. I don’t want kids and am not particularly interested in anyone who has kids (I do have dogs though, so you must get along with them), but I would love to cook and clean for my man who wants to take care of me, because I take care of him (although I still have every intention of continuing school and working part-time) and someone who wants to travel around the world together would definitely be a plus.
I love to have fun and try new things. I love gear-heads and would be very interested in someone would like showing me around on their bike. But, if hockey is your thing, that’s cool too, I’ll just say, “honey, you go to the game with your buddies and I’ll go out with my girlfriends tonight.” Either way works for me, I’m just interested in someone I can have fun with, who inspires me and who I can inspire in return. If you are interested in learning more about me shoot me an e-mail with a picture please, and I’ll send a picture in response, just know that if you don’t have the title, I won’t bother reading, let alone responding.
I'm 25, with a college education, a professional job. Live on my own. Not the best cook, but I try. Short and fit. I'm looking for someone in the similar situation. If you are a dog lover, someone in the tech field, or someone that likes to volunteer, you should take the time to message me. I'm a down to earth kind of gal, but I do dress up more than your average girl. I will send a pic when requested.
I'm not going to bullshit. People always say looks don't matter, but honestly, they do to an extent. I can't be sexual with a guy whom I am not attracted to, and that's just it. I am a strong believer that personality overpowers looks. You can be the hottest guy ever, but if you're a douche bag, I am completely turned off. Attraction can grow with your personality.
Anyway, there is a lot to tell about me and I am not good at writing about myself so feel free to email me with "Tattoo" in the subject line, a little about yourself and a picture. No picture, no response and you won't get a pic from me! So, if you think you can handle me and want to try, just do it! Email me!!
So what im looking for in a nutshell and you don’t really have to have all of this but this is just what im attracted to:
-I like light skinned boys who are somewhat tall, at least taller than 5’5
-Good grammar is sexy. Bad grammar is a huge turn off.
-5 o'clock shadows make me wet myself
-I’m looking for someone close to my age although if you are over 25 and you honestly think a relationship with a 20 year old will work out by all means go ahead and try, maybe that’s what I need. Personally, I don’t think it will work.
-If you are quiet that’s perfectly fine, I like to be comfortably silent although please be a good conversationalist-this is very important! If you are too shy to talk face to face we can be face to face and text, that’s fine with me but at least have something to say.
-You don’t have to have a job but you should be in school or doing something with your life.
-You don’t have to have a car but at least have a bike so you can ride over to see me once in awhile.
-Smoking pot is a turn off. Cigarettes I don’t mind, drinking I don’t mind.
-Please be healthy as in not just out of relationship and looking for someone to heal your broken heart. I don't believe in that. Hopefully your last relationship was a year ago.
There is not much to me: I go to school, I don’t live with my parents, I ride a bike, I’m going to be very successful.
I am not hot, simply cute, possibly adorable, very loveable. I have been described as “soft spoken and reserved but amazing when you get to know them” Also, in my quietness I get asked “whats wrong” a lot. Lol, I hate that. So im going to hide this in here to see who actually read this- my favorite number is 43, in your email you should mention that somewhere.
I am Hispanic, hopefully you are attracted to that. Although, i'm light skinned because I hate the sun (somewhat of a vampire) and I wear sunscreen. Hah.
I am 5’4 in height and have never been super skinny in my life but I’m not really fat either. I’ll call it tubby.
So in case you are wondering I am looking for this special someone for a reason.
Not looking for sex, if I really truly have feelings for you I will not want sex.
Well, at the moment I honestly want a partner, someone to follow me around sort of like a puppy.
Not looking for friends
I've discussed this with my roommates and they say im looking for someone for the entirely wrong reasons. They say I am wrong in my wanting because I mentioned that I want someone to split the cost of a pizza with me and help me finish it because I can't eat a whole pizza! I would like someone to live with me and help share the rent (but thats not what im looking for in you!!! Just something I would like)
I want to hold hands under the table, I want walk with my arm around your waist and your arm around my shoulders, I want someone to go to sleep next to, I want someone to text all day with, I want someone to give me butterflies, I want to get excited to hear from you or see you. I want to feel special and I want to make you feel special.
Although, I am not into PDA at all, that doesn't mean I don't love you. ha
In the title I used the term "big girl" well yep thats what I am. I would be consider a SSBBW. I'm orginally from Austin, hispanic, and I think I have a great sense of humor.
I am not looking to give anything up in return for a nice dinner, or night of dancing so if you think and know this is you, then DO NOT reply. I am pretty blunt, upfront and pretty much a Type A personality which means I know what I want, where I want to be and really want that awesome guy to share my life with.
I do enjoy going to church so if you are going to reply with, "No Bible Thumping" at least I know who I am and what I believe and I will just send a prayer your way :-)
I also very much enjoy going to the movies, visiting my family, hanging with my 2 yr old at storytime, singing, ect.
I do not drink much at all, maybe 5-6 times a year, do not smoke, no drugs, and would appreciate if you did not either.
I will say I am not much of a sports fanatic and it is really only because with a full time job, classes and a child I do not have much me time and when I have time it is spent doing kiddo cool stuf. If you are a sports nut, that is great!
I would like to not spend the upcoming holidays alone and have been trying to get into the dating scene again and it is intimidating since I am not in my 20's anymore and let's be honest not too many people want to date someone who has a child with baggage from the ex, but unfortunately it is reality......so again all I can do is try. I am ready to start new, and want someone who is ready for life's adventures. I want someone to encourage me in the gym, ( no I am not a fat gal, just a few extra, like 15-20lb) but I am of average size, and would like someone who takes care of themself and not mean and pushy, but supportive, and yes there is a difference. Your picture will in return get mine and of course if you have no picture but one on myspace, or facebook let me know.
Just a few things that are dealbreakers: No smoking, no men with African accents or that may be natives of Africa. If you aren't willing to send a picture or truly are not ready for a relationship, don't bother also.
I do look forward to meeting someone soon. Please send: new in town, in the subject line. THANKS!
I would prefer you be between 26-37, educated, have a steady job, with no kids (or not at home). I also speak Spanish, so I would love it if you did as well... Please don't smoke or do drugs, and we'll be cool. Honesty is probably the most important thing to me, so please be honest, i'd rather know the truth, whatever it may be, than to not know... That said, I do generally like latino/hispanic men, but that is not a requirement :)
Well, before I write a novel, I'd love to hear from you. Please send a recent picture so I can put your face with your name, and tell me about yourself, and we can take it from there. I will respond with recent pictures as well. If you have instant messenger, that's a great way to start as well...
Put Buenos dias amiga, in the subject line so I know that you are not spam...
However since I always say "never say never" I thought I'd give it a shot and see what happens. Who knows even if I don't meet a love interest on here, maybe I'll make a good friend and we can go out and help each other find that special person!
What I"m looking for is someone I can start off being friends with first and see what happens. I'd like to find someone who I can spend quality time with. My ideal mate is someone who is intelligent, educated, kind, has a sense of humor, loyal, knows how to communicate, ambitious, MONOGAMOUS and spiritual.
I am an african american female and someone between the ages of 37-42 is good. I prefer someone who has never been married with no kids, but it really depends on the total person. I am looking for african american men only and prefer a mate who is into african american woman.
Leave a message if interested and please send a pic. In the subject line put "why am i doing this" so I will know you are real.
I feel this may be the last place I should look for you, but I had to try...
A little more about me; 28, divorced, no kids. Active, healthy, non-smoker, don't drink (only on occasion) and easy going. Just looking for an old fashioned man to build a future and family with...could this be you?
I could go on and on, but lets start with that. Id put an age range on it, but Im going to leave it open to see what happens.
Im 28. Awesome. Currently unemployed - trust me, I get the irony in that. But I have my shit together and am jobless because I want to be! Im taking time to enjoy life and figure out what Im doing next. I live alone with my dogs. I spend a lot of time just hanging out with friends...going to shows, getting tattooed, finding trouble to get into, and watching movies. At this point in my life, Im looking to make new friends, date, have fun, see where shit goes. I by no means want to rush off and get hitched.
If your interested in this type of new friendship please let me know! :)
Me-
- 25
- Passionate about my career path - love the path God is taking me down
- Christian [non-denominational]
- Graduate Student
- Extra Lbs[working on this- resulted from past circumstances]
- Blonde / Hazel
- Non-existent social life
- Close to family and pets
- Spend most free time and late nights at coffee shops or IHOP working and watching netflix.
Which would takes me into my next subject, RACE is not an ISSUE it is only an ISSUE if you make it an ISSUE! Heck this is Austin for God sakes I love all of my fellow Austinians lol! I don't care if your White, Black, Cuban, Asian, mixed, Purple, Brown or Teal, what matters is your heart, and you have my best intention at heart, and you are a genuine person from the heart. Now that I got that out of the way look wise I am not picky, if you are attractive you are attractive, all I ask is that you have a beautiful smile I am a sucker for that, oh how I love a man with a beautiful smile it doe wonders for me. Size or weight don't really care, as I am not what society calls thin, so I don't expect you to be, bottom line we are all humans, no one is perfect, truth be told just because your "skinny" does not mean that you healthy, and that is truth! You don't have to be college educated, because college doesn't equal smart, but please be smart, I shouldn't have to say this but I am. I am not an idiot, and you shouldn't be either. Other than that I am not picky just want a good guy that wants what I want, I don't think I am asking a lot.
I am going to post this ad again and see what I get last time perhaps I was a little to veg, on what I wanted, I figure now with a little clarification this should place a little separation between what I want and what I don't want. Now I'll know if you really read my ad based on if you follow these directions...........Put Great Guy in the subject line so I know that you are real, also please send a pic your pic will get mine, then answer the following 2 questions:
If your were on a deserted island and could only take one cd and one move with you which would you take and why? Also what is the best thing about your personality and why?
Well thanks for checking out my ad hope it wasn't too long look forward to hearing from all ttyl Peace!
I have many goals... First being to create a charity foundation that assist Veterans of War, I hate to see homeless veterans on the street, it makes me feel bad that I am living a wonderful life, and some of the people that have served our country are out there homeless, sick, jobless. I have always loved helping people and I think this will be a great way to do so. I am also working on a benefit, to help raise money for my cause.
Another goal I have is to get a minor in Political Science, I feel like I have a good upper hand when arguing politics. I believe this world needs to be more involved in the government; so things like Katrina After Math, Current War Status,Treason,and such doesnt happen.
I am for sure going to try my hand in Wedding/Event Planning, I just love planning things. Organizing a day in which no one will ever forget because I helped make it special with my little touch, will put the biggest smile on my face.
I LOVE art. Art is part of who I am. I believe art is a form of expression of things people do not know how to say, or maybe they know how to say it, they just cant get through to other people so they use art. Art is a universal language I believe. I like to tell people I am fluent in Art. Another thing about art, is that, art isnt just pictures, colors, shapes,easels...its what you wear, the perfume/cologne you use, your attitude, your personality, the things you are interested in...its what defines you as a person. Thats why I love Austin, especially downtown because it is filled with artful people.
I Love to have fun anyway possible. the Drag is awesome to walk down on a Saturday morning or evening. I love live music, maggie mae's, hookah lounges on occassion(very rare), shopping, dancing (even though i lack the skills), going to 6th street on occassion, it does get old; so i make it a rare occassion.
I do not smoke, but as long as your not a chimmney and respect my choice not to smoke, i can deal with it.